Is it true that expectations can only bring pain? And expectations only bring disappointment? Don’t expect much so that you are thrilled with what little you get? Those thoughts ran through my head as the events of my life unfolded in front of me. Negativity and sadness begot more negativity and sadness. Then a friend [...]
For years I was in a relationship that did not compliment or push me the way that I believe I need and is meant for me. Once it ended, I began to hear what people may or may not have been saying to or about me for the years I was in the relationship. “You [...]
I personally know a few families that are making that giant leap, and for reasons of work or school – and lifestyle – have decided to live in Hawaii. Since I have seen many people come and go, some with relative ease and others with personal frustration, here is a list of etiquette tips I [...]
As I sit at work away from my ocean comfort, reading my e-mail, sending e-mail, and involuntarily listening to people on the phone … a couple of things come to mind. What if you could just be nice? Is it really that difficult? I know you find pleasure in being such a bitch, but what [...]
For the second time in my life, the person I recently broke up with is moving. Just as suddenly as the first time, there is no reason or explanation, just a frenzied rush to get out of where they are. They say the will be quitting their job, selling their house, and heading out to [...]
Being a daily surfer without a full-time, 9 to 7, daily grind job definitely has its perks! If you have the means or the inclination, I highly recommend trying it out for an extended period of time. Be forewarned, however, that this lifestyle is not for the faint of heart, nor those with a weak [...]
